tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6420983000885677591.post2215098319302844078..comments2011-11-30T05:20:00.025-08:00Self Help Goddesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17743955832663988451noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6420983000885677591.post-4247081170922432772011-11-30T05:20:00.025-08:002011-11-30T05:20:00.025-08:00Thank you so much for that nicely written piece of text.<br />http://www.qmoayad.com/Visualizationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00537594107282540183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6420983000885677591.post-43997345545311340332010-09-19T22:02:22.354-07:002010-09-19T22:02:22.354-07:00Haven&#39;t posted in a while, eh?<br /><br />What I saw was nice work. I came across your blog while “blog surfing” using the “Next Blog” button in the Nav Bar at the top of my blogspot blog. I occasionally just check out other blogs to see what others are doing.Inspector Clouseauhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09373932797333038561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6420983000885677591.post-35089633720291700272010-03-19T12:05:18.821-07:002010-03-19T12:05:18.821-07:00Thank you Mary for your comments, we always have something to improve and find out about ourselves...I will check it out!clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16483800819280177557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6420983000885677591.post-81378063815197782452010-03-18T10:45:36.179-07:002010-03-18T10:45:36.179-07:00Hi Claire! Thanks so much for your comment. Your situation is definitely one I&#39;ve had to deal with myself:)<br /><br />I&#39;m wondering, do you have any close male friends that you could talk to about this? Maybe ask them how you come across to them and what you could do differently. Not so much to change who you are, but to come across in a way that&#39;s still confident but not as intimidating to others? Sometimes we&#39;re doing things with our body language that we don&#39;t even realize we&#39;re doing, and close friends can help point those things out to us.<br /><br />You are definitely on the right path, though! You shouldn&#39;t have to change anything about yourself in order to attract your perfect mate. In fact, your perfect mate will accept you exactly as you are and even *love* those things about you that others might have rejected. That&#39;s great news, isn&#39;t it?<br /><br />Lots of love to you!Self Help Goddesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17743955832663988451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6420983000885677591.post-28789391358263895962010-03-18T10:41:30.065-07:002010-03-18T10:41:30.065-07:00Hi Greg! As always thanks for stopping by and commenting:)<br /><br />Yes, I so agree with you: it *is* often difficult for us to determine what we really want in life! We might say we want one thing, when deep down it&#39;s really somthing else we want. And then we wonder why we&#39;re not getting the results we&#39;re after! <br /><br />I&#39;ve actually recently started paying a LOT of attention to what my underlying wants and desires are. Sometimes if we target our very basic wants, we can do away with a lot of the other &quot;surface&quot; wants and life flows a lot more smoothly. And smooth is good!<br /><br />And with that, I&#39;m off to go check out your blog because I know you&#39;ve got lots of cool things going on over there! ;)Self Help Goddesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17743955832663988451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6420983000885677591.post-39950973690376216302010-03-18T10:37:47.519-07:002010-03-18T10:37:47.519-07:00Hi Adrianne!<br /><br />Thanks for stopping by, and especially for your comment:) I know you know your LOA stuff, so I&#39;m thrilled you got value out of this post!<br /><br />This is so true what you said: &quot;when we release resistance about something it can more quickly and easily shift to the new thing we want to experience.&quot; It&#39;s so true, yet not always easy!<br /><br />Maybe someday we all just accept that life is one big sea of experiences to be felt and enjoyed, and that each experience carries with it several positives and negatives. Then we would understand that there really is no situation to be feared or resisted, it is ALL GOOD! <br /><br />Someday:)Self Help Goddesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17743955832663988451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6420983000885677591.post-7194859036471776482010-03-17T13:25:16.338-07:002010-03-17T13:25:16.338-07:00Thanks Mary, this is a really good post (always a pleasure reading from you)...hope it will help me, because I am completely stuck in &quot;having&quot; my perfect mate here with me, right now.<br /><br />I am just questionning the fact that maybe being stuck could also depends on things you reflect in other&#39;s eyes, visible aspects...and that are much more difficult to change.<br /><br />In my case, men do not approach me because they see me as someone who shows too much self-confidence and they are afraid of that (don&#39;t ask me why!).<br />This is something difficult to hide and the fact is, this is who I am and I don&#39;t want to change a thing!clairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16483800819280177557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6420983000885677591.post-40915142359835062902010-03-11T11:43:20.657-08:002010-03-11T11:43:20.657-08:00Mary,<br /><br />Fantastic post!<br /><br />This reminds me that we as human beings aren&#39;t always good at knowing what really makes us happy. Or at least I know this has been true with me!<br /><br />While we are often right about what we want, there are also times when the fantasy is much better than the reality. Your example of wanting to be in a relationship is a classic one. Like you said, you actually might want freedom even more.<br /><br />This exercise is a really good way of putting the fantasy in our minds to the test!Greg Blencoehttp://www.positivewavesbaby.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6420983000885677591.post-64003117443209764862010-03-08T18:16:41.082-08:002010-03-08T18:16:41.082-08:00Hi Mary, <br /><br />Great article! <br /><br />I am a big fan of this technique! It really does seem true that we cannot move away from something until we find a way to love it... or at least really appreciate it&#39;s positive aspects. <br /><br />I&#39;ve definitely found this to be the case in manifesting what I want. It totally jives with the idea of &quot;what you resist persists.&quot; And when we release resistance about something it can more quickly and easily shift to the new thing we want to experience. <br /><br />I love the fact that we can find a way to appreciate anything if we see it in a certain light or from a different perspective.<br /><br />Much Love,<br />AdrianneAdriannehttp://understand-and-use-law-of-attraction.comnoreply@blogger.com